Oh, god, don't take advice from me on that.

[ he laughs a little, shaking his head. ]

I don't know how to manage it. I'm not sure I did manage it, really, so much as survive it. It's only that when you're really in love — and I mean the excruciating, overwhelming, everyone around you thinks you need to get a grip already kind of in love — you just don't get much of a choice.