[ And look, she was even nice enough to keep her judgment to slight, deniable passive-aggression in a locked conversation. She's trying!! ]

It's hit or miss, really, but you should assume more hits than misses. [ A little calm, but sympathetic. ] Most, like, regular people don't dig back very far, even when they should. Regular people might assume, since their memories are longer.

... What does it change, for you, if people know?