I can think of some root canals I'd rather have.

[ There's no break in her composure, no sign of actual anger or indignance. Just a gently condescending smile. ]

You show up somewhere new, you keep bringing this woman up and attempting to convince people who know her better than they know you that she's unstable. You don't see how this is perhaps not the smoothest way to go about an introduction?

[ Except this is all still public -- wow Grant it's almost like she's trying to draw more attention to this than give you advice ]