[ You don't understand the context!!!! Grumblegrumble. ]

I asked him- It was different. That's all you need to know. [ There's a lot of hand gesturing going on here. Ray is on a quest to convince himself Fraser is actually talking about that one time...... ] He doesn't mean it the way you thinks he means it. Unconventional or not, and even I don't know what he means by that one.

Fraser's the unconventional one.