To be honest, I have no idea who he is. We met so long ago that I don't really remember much about him. But I remember that he was there, after my parents died. If he wasn't there...
[She hesitates, staring at her ring]
If he wasn't there, I have no idea where I'd be now.
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[She hesitates, staring at her ring]
If he wasn't there, I have no idea where I'd be now.