But there must be something you want, Ray. You wore a ring for a decade before, it means something to you.

[ He has no idea how to explain himself properly. He wants to mark the occasion somehow, wants to do it with something that would mean something to Ray, at least, he's just a practical man at heart, and he knows he seems stubborn, but this is him trying to adjust.

Just like all his other little adjustments. ]

This isn't just about me, Ray. It hasn't ever been.