Ray--Ray, that's very unfair. What if I elected to choose rings for my own purposes, in the end? It's quite possible, and you would deny me the option.

[ That is literally the closest to arguing he'll get. The thing is, he's not Stella. Ray and Stella did argue, for a lot of their marriage, and Fraser being incapable probably makes it harder for Ray to get a bearing on how he feels. It's not for lack of trying, but it would hardly be the first time that he'd been accused of being unreadable.

He's trying though. Adjusting is just so hard. ]