Back home something bad happened to someone I care about Wasn't something I did personally but I felt completely responsible for it There was nothing I could do to fix the situation or to make things better I also couldnt just walk away and leave her suffering without doing something to put things right I gave her money to get herself and her kid outta where they were so they could be safe and have a better life She figured out fast that the money was coming from me. I didn't lie when she confronted me about it. Told her straight why I was giving her money, what the money was for Also told her that it was up to her whether she used the money to give her son and herself a better life or if she spent it all on drugs. Wasn't my place to tell her the choices she should be making Just told her that I had to believe she wouldn't do that She went and got a nice place in a nice neighborhood. She got away from that life. Her kid is safe. Doesn't fix what happened but at least they can move on with a life they deserve Different situation, different issues, I know. My point is, there are ways to put things right if you know what he needs and what he deserves. Let him do with that whatever he wants If he throws it back in your face, let him. That's what you deserve if he does.
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Wasn't something I did personally but I felt completely responsible for it
There was nothing I could do to fix the situation or to make things better
I also couldnt just walk away and leave her suffering without doing something to put things right
I gave her money to get herself and her kid outta where they were so they could be safe and have a better life
She figured out fast that the money was coming from me. I didn't lie when she confronted me about it.
Told her straight why I was giving her money, what the money was for
Also told her that it was up to her whether she used the money to give her son and herself a better life or if she spent it all on drugs. Wasn't my place to tell her the choices she should be making
Just told her that I had to believe she wouldn't do that
She went and got a nice place in a nice neighborhood. She got away from that life. Her kid is safe.
Doesn't fix what happened but at least they can move on with a life they deserve
Different situation, different issues, I know. My point is, there are ways to put things right if you know what he needs and what he deserves. Let him do with that whatever he wants
If he throws it back in your face, let him. That's what you deserve if he does.