⚓ Rowdy Pirate Lad ⚓ (
h2no) wrote in
maskormenace2017-11-26 12:37 am
![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
![[community profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/community.png)
text (again) - definitely not to make up for the other one
this is a touchy subject
but
are there any support networks in place for people to go to when someone they care about gets ported out? temporarily or permanently, or if they get ported out and come back with no memories
i'm not asking because i'm in this situation currently personally but i'm seeing a lot of people who have their entire lives they built here ruined because someone has been pulled out by the porter
not just romantic partners either. i'm sure we've all lost friends and family too.
this is a unique problem to imports and i think maybe only other imports can really and truly understand what it's like.
not sure. please advise.
but
are there any support networks in place for people to go to when someone they care about gets ported out? temporarily or permanently, or if they get ported out and come back with no memories
i'm not asking because i'm in this situation currently personally but i'm seeing a lot of people who have their entire lives they built here ruined because someone has been pulled out by the porter
not just romantic partners either. i'm sure we've all lost friends and family too.
this is a unique problem to imports and i think maybe only other imports can really and truly understand what it's like.
not sure. please advise.
[text]
The irony in this, of course, is that I'm sure there have been imPort-created support networks of this nature in the past, but everyone running them probably got Ported out.
Re: [text]
and it's still temporary to some degree
i had considered that that was the case
guess they didn't have a contingency plan
Re: [text]
It's hard to think of this place as permanent for many people, but they may as well treat it that way. They've got nothing to lose, since they won't remember once they leave. And that means forming the necessary networks for losing those foundations, too.
There's a reason life insurance exists (beyond fraud payouts, I mean).
Re: [text]
but yes everyone is super edgy and impressive with how callous they are and how they don't care about no-one but themselves and every attempt at anything even marginally good is total shit
rolls my eyes so hard they pop out my skull
honestly you say that but you don't know how many people i've seen fall apart when someone they care deeply about is ported out. even if it's temporary.
i'm not just willing to accept "shut up and suffer" as an option
Re: [text]
That's my point, pal. Too many think they can handle it, or put off the possibility of it happening, but it comes to everyone, in time.
(Except Tony Stark)
If nothing's in place, which it doesn't seem like there is, I wouldn't mind helping out. Someone to talk to. I'm not exactly the organizational type, though- seems like something worth bringing up to the current ambassadors, at the very least.
Re: [text]
this is just an idea i'm floating now. i'll figure out the logistics when i know who wants in. i honestly thought no-one would reply...
and you're welcome to help as long as you leave your fatalistic shit at the doorstep
Re: [text]
Nah, people eat this sort of thing up because everyone's been affected or knows someone who has. Empathy's a powerful thing, thankfully.
Hey, you're gonna hurt my feelings with accusations like that.
Re: [text]
and good.
Re: [text]
But I'd feel better to know that's what you need, rather than have baseless accusations flung in my face. Thanks in advance.
Re: [text]
Re: [text]
Really, you need a talk or something?
Re: [text]
i guess i'm just over defensive because i expected people to wave this off
sorry
Re: [text]
Shoot me a message if this gets off the ground.
Re: [text]
i'm sure the religious imports would appreciate your involvement
Re: [text]
I'm not a fan of blowing wind like that anyway.
Re: [text]
if it works it works, right? i might ask pucci if he can provide religious assistance to those who follow it as well
Re: [text]
A good philosophy to have. [Sheesh, sure, and maybe he won't rip out everyone's memories or murder anyone.]
Re: [text]