h2no: (#yikes)
⚓ Rowdy Pirate Lad ⚓ ([personal profile] h2no) wrote in [community profile] maskormenace2017-11-26 12:37 am

text (again) - definitely not to make up for the other one

this is a touchy subject
but

are there any support networks in place for people to go to when someone they care about gets ported out? temporarily or permanently, or if they get ported out and come back with no memories
i'm not asking because i'm in this situation currently personally but i'm seeing a lot of people who have their entire lives they built here ruined because someone has been pulled out by the porter
not just romantic partners either. i'm sure we've all lost friends and family too.

this is a unique problem to imports and i think maybe only other imports can really and truly understand what it's like.

not sure. please advise.
hellrisen02: (Distanced from one)

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[personal profile] hellrisen02 2017-11-26 07:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Back then, everyone was so concerned with 'getting home', of this being temporary, that the idea of a long-term support network would have been laughable. Now, clearly, it's a common enough occurrence as to be, frankly, a necessity.

The irony in this, of course, is that I'm sure there have been imPort-created support networks of this nature in the past, but everyone running them probably got Ported out.
hellrisen02: (Filled with joy and wonder)

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[personal profile] hellrisen02 2017-11-26 07:55 pm (UTC)(link)
"imPorts" and "planning" don't go hand in hand so well, do they?

It's hard to think of this place as permanent for many people, but they may as well treat it that way. They've got nothing to lose, since they won't remember once they leave. And that means forming the necessary networks for losing those foundations, too.

There's a reason life insurance exists (beyond fraud payouts, I mean).
hellrisen02: (Blind to the other)

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[personal profile] hellrisen02 2017-11-26 08:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Long as we're on the same page.

That's my point, pal. Too many think they can handle it, or put off the possibility of it happening, but it comes to everyone, in time.

(Except Tony Stark)

If nothing's in place, which it doesn't seem like there is, I wouldn't mind helping out. Someone to talk to. I'm not exactly the organizational type, though- seems like something worth bringing up to the current ambassadors, at the very least.
hellrisen02: (Filled with joy and wonder)

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[personal profile] hellrisen02 2017-11-26 08:39 pm (UTC)(link)
[Um, yeah. 'Poor'.]

Nah, people eat this sort of thing up because everyone's been affected or knows someone who has. Empathy's a powerful thing, thankfully.

Hey, you're gonna hurt my feelings with accusations like that.
hellrisen02: (Deaf to the other)

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[personal profile] hellrisen02 2017-11-26 08:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Sheesh. If you're looking for someone to lash out at, that's a form of therapy too, I guess.

But I'd feel better to know that's what you need, rather than have baseless accusations flung in my face. Thanks in advance.
hellrisen02: (I used to wonder why did you bother)

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[personal profile] hellrisen02 2017-11-26 10:22 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't kid around when it comes to helping people.

Really, you need a talk or something?
hellrisen02: (Would you care if you lost the other?)

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[personal profile] hellrisen02 2017-11-26 11:48 pm (UTC)(link)
I guess that makes us partners in fatalism.

Shoot me a message if this gets off the ground.
hellrisen02: (Blind to the other)

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[personal profile] hellrisen02 2017-11-26 11:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Hah. People forget too often what the point of charity or counsel from the cloth is. Jesus wasn't in it for the Big Man, and neither am I.

I'm not a fan of blowing wind like that anyway.
hellrisen02: (Readying to bury your father and mother)

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[personal profile] hellrisen02 2017-11-27 12:56 am (UTC)(link)
What I mean is that this profession and the rituals attached to it are about helping people, not getting coolkid points for the afterlife you believe in.

A good philosophy to have.
[Sheesh, sure, and maybe he won't rip out everyone's memories or murder anyone.]