anon text - blocked from matt WHAT TIME IS IT?? RELATIONSHIP DRAMA TIME

[h2no]

what do u do when u fuck up so bad u hurt the person you love??? and they might not come back to u and things might not be the same ever again
like htheyll still talk 2 you but u know its the [mamoswine?? no that'll give him away... what the hell are they normally called??] large animal in the room that ur not even smart enough to talk abt properly
and that mayb talking inst the way forward

this is very self pitying and dumb I KNOW but im at wits end here fellow imports
i dont know what ill do i f i loose em forever

Comments

[couldbebeautiful]

It would be kind of hard to fuck up as badly as he did, though.

[Little does she know, Archie already did.]

Don't. Try beating up a punching bag instead.

Maybe get someone who can act as a go-between? I'm scraping the bottom of the barrel here.

[h2no]

yeah me too
i think
going by overall advice
i need to let it go
and figure out how to do that without being stupid and creepy

[couldbebeautiful]

Accept that shit happened between you two and move on with your life, that's how. You only get stupid and creepy when you just keep denying that shit went down and act like nothing's changed, or that one big action can fix things between you two.

[Where is all this experience coming from? (Hint: starts with the letters JD.)]

In my experience, big, showy actions usually backfire badly. What works is the small stuff. Maybe neither of you can talk about it right now, but if he ever wants to talk, listen to him.

If he doesn't, you can't force the issue.

[h2no]

ok well im not doing either of those so i guess i'm slightly above rock bottom
or looking up at it i guess i took my pickaxe and went hackin at the bedrock

[couldbebeautiful]

"Slightly above" is still good. That means you can work your way up to "visibly above rock bottom".

Just don't push him. From what you're telling me he already isn't taking it too well.

[h2no]

i pushed him so hard already i think even if i wanted to my arms would give out